I recently had the honor to facility a bible study on marriage and intimacy. I was so excited. As a therapist and counselor it was right up my alley. Of course I could do this, I was armed and ready! Boy did I have a lot to learn. I take heart and delight that I am married to my best friend, and although we've had our marital moments, he is my rock. Quickly I discovered, I had a lot to learn, a lot to forgive, and a whole lot to communicate. I was loving my man, but not the way God designed for me to love him. Passion Pursuit by Linda Dillow is amazing. It showed me how to love my man the way he needed to be loved, to love him with Gods love, to trust him, to give him all of me.
Most importantly, I have learned that by loving this man how God designed, I was honoring God, and steadying my heart for happiness that I could have never imagined. I could go on for days about how this has changed me and my marriage, but I'm smart, and made you guys a cliff notes version. But honestly if you read nothing else in the next year please pick up this study, you wont be sorry.